“hello”
It all starts with hello and some guy getting too close to her.
One fine day, you saw her in the class, you are like, “Damn! She is sure outta my league”, the next thing you do, you bug them up on social media, see their photos, but keep your hands up from not at least liking them, who wants to be a creep! Next, you gather up a bit of confidence, and text them, “Hello” because you are too shy and filled up with hormones. You carry on the nice chat, and think like, “She’s totally my type” the girl thinks the same too. You guys meet up, go on dates, have fun! One fine day, you confess your “Love” for her, she does the same. Boom! Here’s how the story goes. Everything goes all well, the care, the love, the dates! Months go by, you guys realize that not everything goes well all the time, you guys make a decision to break up, or so as I say, “Break-ups aren’t mutual”.
You guys lose out on one another. But, somehow you are still stuck in the same phase! One thing surely is, when we lose out from a relationship, there are pretty side effects in our mind going on, be it the phantoms of the good memories or the laughter of the humor talking. These side effects tend to play a huge role in making the person believe, “Buddy. You should move on”. I too was in something like this a year back and what I did to make myself move on was just — Cut the call. Cut all sorts of communication. The popular culture walks on the road of block-unblock. But that’s not what I am saying. Simply, stop interacting with them on the basis you used to do. Be it social media — the game of texts or if you are in a high school or college or maybe work office just exchange simple greetings(if by any chance. By any goddamn chance you stumble upon them). Next thing to do, if you are in high school or college, just do your studies well man, or the grades are gonna chuckle at you at the end of the class. Or, maybe follow up a passion. I always loved to write be it short stories(the actual short ones), poetries and all that. I just did that plus I had studies piled up too at that time. Go on with your life. Something may have happened, but that should never be the reason to make you stop. If I you think he was the one? Then go for dialogue if there is some unfinished business left. If not… Then why even put up the question! You know your worth right? Is it actually necessary to make someone understand that they lost you? They might not get it now, but one day they surely will( Or maybe never!). That’s again not your problem, go on with your life. Live Life. Live beautifully.
